Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

Why can't we send flat Earthers to space and show them the shape of Earth?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Why do people who aren't trans feel the need to put pronouns next to their name or picture? It seems so cringeworthy to me, to participate in that SJW paradigm of thought, like they are a spineless person who just goes along with the trends.

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.